Sharing Your Desires - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 11

Sara and Jay discuss how you can share your sexual and intimate desires, including strategies for starting the conversation, tools you can use to find where your desires overlap, and ways you can build communicative relationships in every aspect of your life.

Also discussed: fetish, fetishization, and a question about being in polyamorous and kink communities as a therapist.


Bex Talks Sex Yes/No/Maybe list:

Scarleteen's Yes, No, Maybe sexuality checklist:

Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire by Jamie Grant (leader of the Desire Mapping session discussed in this episode)


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