Conflict and Cheating - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 18

This week Sara and Jay discuss different types of conflict that happen in relationships, share communication skills for more effective conflict resolution, and talk about the difference between active and passive communication. Also discussed: cheating, heteronormative scripts, and emotional labor.

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Submission - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 16

This week, Sara and Jay dive deep into submission, including a discussion of different types of pain, what subspace actually is, how some people use kink to heal from trauma, different types of submissive terms you may see online, and consensual nonconsent play (with a timestamp to skip the discussion, if you'd like).

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Dominance, Orgasm Denial, and Kink Self-Care - Queer Sex Ed: Episode 14

Sara and Jay discuss all things dominance! This episode dives deep into the kink role that has the control in a BDSM scene and all of the different facets of dominance that don't usually get talked about in kinky conversations.

Also discussed: Playing with orgasm denial, dealing with sub drop and dom drop, and interrupting toxic masculinity in dominance.

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Sharing Your Desires - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 11

Sara and Jay discuss how you can share your sexual and intimate desires, including strategies for starting the conversation, tools you can use to find where your desires overlap, and ways you can build communicative relationships in every aspect of your life.

Also discussed: fetish, fetishization, and a question about being in polyamorous and kink communities as a therapist.

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Jealousy, Compersion, and Building Inclusive Spaces - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 6

 

Jay and Sara discuss what "compersion" means, how you can reverse engineer your jealousy, and tips for building inclusive spaces

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Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 4 - Sara at Bedpost Confessions and Slutwalk

Hey friends, it's Sara! Even though the show is technically still on hiatus until October, I thought it might be fun to share two performances I recently had at sex positive events. I grabbed the audio track from when I performed my monologue about my first threesome at Bedpost Confessions and also the poetry I read as a speaker at Slutwalk 2017. I hope you enjoy these quickies, and we will be back in the middle of October with another full-size episode hosted by myself and Jay.

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